How can you make a female have an orgasm if she doesn't like penetration?

Many people have the misguided idea that a female has an orgasm from penile thrusting. Usually, this isn't true. A female typically has an orgasm from manipulation, manual, oral, or friction from something else like a vibrator, etc. The clitoris, which is the female organ of pleasure is located at least one half to one inch above the opening to the vagina and needs stimulation to stimulate an orgasm. In my book I describe the female sexual anatomy and tell what each body part does. You need to understand female sexuality and it would take too much time here to describe it. Please refer to my book. - Answer provided by Dr. Shay Roop, RN, LMHC, Ed.D, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Board Certified by the American Board of Sexology, shay@drshay.org, www.drshay.org.

A woman can orgasm in many ways other than penetration. As a matter of fact, most women do not orgasm with penetration alone, because it does not provide sufficient stimulation to the clitoris. You can give your woman great pleasure with your fingers, orally or with the help of a vibrator without penetration. Using your fingers or a vibrator on her clitoris will bring her to a wonderful orgasm. Providing oral pleasure with your mouth and tongue on her clitoris will also give her an exquisite climax. She may also be able to reach climax by laying on top of you and rubbing her clitoris back and forth against your hard shaft. Keep in mind that not all satisfying sexual encounters have to end in an orgasm. Sometimes it can be very pleasurable just to be close and sensual with lots of touching, kissing, caressing and holding. - Answer provided by Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed., sex counselor and author of "Smoldering Embers-Hot Erotic Stories and Sex Tips for Couples", cynthiap@frognet.net, www.smolderingembers.com.

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