Premature ejaculation. It has ruined two marriages. Can you help?

There are techniques you can use to help you gain better control over your ejaculation. You can read some books on male sexuality and read the section that talks about this. There is the stop/start technique and the squeeze technique. You can also speak to your doctor about medications that might help with this. Some medications that treat people with depression are also used to help men with premature ejaculation. Of course you can also seek the help of a certified sex therapist. - Answer provided by Alan L. Marcus, Ph.D., AASECT Certified, drmarcus@tmail.com, www.gpatherapy.com.

You need to touch on the underlying causes. This can be quite complex but the treatment is relatively simple. Get in touch with a sex therapist in your area or self treat with books or videos on the subject, some of which are available on the web site. - Answer provided by Tim Britton, Ph.D., AASECT, ABS, timbritton@yahoo.com.
 

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