Curious? Sometimes when I have a HUGE orgasm, my body produces a very thick milky liquid. My husband says it's very similar to a man's semen because of the consistency. I'm curious if this is close to having a "woman's ejaculation"? As it usually happens when there is a lot of pressure on my g-spot & urethra. I currently have no infections, there is no strange odor to my fluid and I've been experiencing this since the loss of my virginity. I'd appreciate any insight you could give me. Thank you.

What you describe is "female ejaculation" that is most often brought about through stimulation of the "G" spot. This substance is similar to male ejaculate though chemically different. Most of the male ejaculate is produced by the prostate. Given that females have no prostrate, the liquid cannot be the same. It is, however, a result of stimulation. It is often experienced quite pleasurably by most women. I suggest that you both learn to enjoy it.
- Answer provided by Michael Gonzales, Ph.D., mfgonzal@speakeasy.net, www.upasoc.com.

Yes, what you are describing is "female ejaculation". Theoretically, when a woman is highly aroused, and when she experiences constant pressure, or stimulation, on her G-spot (found on the anterior wall, about 2-3 inches into the vagina), she, during orgasm, releases this fluid. Though once thought to be urine (simply because of the massive amount ejaculated), the high fructose level in it was significantly different from that found in urine. Upon further anatomical research, it was found that this fluid is ejaculated from 2 small openings, one on either side of the urethra, called the "Skenes's glands". There is nothing to worry about; this is a healthy expression of sexual behavior. Enjoy. - Answer provided by Faizal Sahukhan, Ph.D., A.C.S., R.P.C., AASECT, drfaizal@multiculturalromance.com, www.multiculturalromance.com.

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