FOR CURIOSITY SAKE

I just had sex for the first time yesterday. We had sex from 11 am to 3 pm. The first time hurt, but the second time felt great, though it hurt a little (in the same day). Today we had sex again, and it hurt just like it did in the beginning. Does that mean I wasn't healed up or something? How long are you supposed to wait after your first time before you do it again? When will I be able to fully enjoy sex? Click here for answers.

What classes or courses does one take to become a therapist? Click here for answers.

Why would a partner who has no reservations about any other sexual or sensual experience refuse to kiss? He likes to experiment with anything new I ask him to do, even toys, but does not kiss me. Please advise. Click here for answers.

I am away from my girlfriend for awhile and masturbate a lot. Does this affect my sperm count in any way or affect my sexual performance? Click here for answers.

My wife of 20 years is extremely shy about oral sex. We have had a long talk about it and there isn't any real reason for her "fear" of it. She is actually wanting to learn now after all this time. What is the best way I can help "teach" her and make her comfortable with this? Click here for answers.

My fiancé seems to be addicted to porn. He has pictures stored on his computer, pictures in his computer bag, etc. Is this normal behavior? Is it possible that I'm not enough for him? Is this something I should be concerned about? He is a 43 year old man, so it's not like he's a curious teenager. Click here for answers.

I am in the sensual product selling business. A few of the girls that never owned a vibrator were afraid to buy one because they heard they can get addicted to one. I advised that anything used in moderation is OK. I also know that using a vibrator often (at least once a day) can desensitize the clitoris. So that when it is touched with a true hand it is not as sensitive to that touch. But I also know that when left alone for a few days the sensitivity comes back. What advice can I give to these women? I feel every female should
own a vibrator. Click here for answers.

I am concerned because I don't have pleasurable feelings inside of my vagina. When I have sex with my husband I can't feel his penis inside of me. What's up with that? Click here for answers.

My lover is 69 years old, has type 2 diabetes, non insulin, and takes a beta blocker for high blood pressure. I have been with him for 14 years. The last couple of years, he is very tired all the time -- blood pressure meds we think. Our sex life has always been good. He is very worried because all at once in the last day or so, he has a good climax and then his erection won't go down, and he still feels like he can climax again. Today after we had good sex and he climaxed, he left and got aroused again, went home and watched a porno tape and climaxed 2 more times. This hasn't been happening since he had been much younger, and it's upsetting him. He said "something's wrong.....its not normal". Can I have some feedback please? I am praying this isn't from an underlying health problem. Click here for answers.

My girl friend and I have seen each other for about 4 years now. She started to express some pain when we're having intercourse since about a year ago. As far as I understand, I think it's pain coming from the stretching of her vagina due to my penis. We don't have sex very often. She says that nothing else is out of ordinary except considerable pain before and during. It is possible for me to ejaculate, but she says that it's very difficult to bear the pain. It's a little better for some positions and worse for others. She says that the doggie style really hurts her. We use condoms all the time nowadays. I hope there's something you can comment about this ordeal. Thank you very much. Click here for answers.

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