ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION

My boyfriend can only get an erection with my help. I actually have to get him there by oral sex. Simply talking about what I want to do to him or him even thinking about us having sex does not arouse him. He can also control how long he keeps the erection during oral sex, but once we have intercourse he reaches an orgasm within a few minutes. He starts to have an orgasm quickly during oral sex, but he knows what to do to stop himself (I do too), but during intercourse he does not have that control. He has had this problem for a very, very long time. Even when he was younger he could not last a long time during intercourse. Click here for answers.

My boyfriend and I just started dating not that long ago. We are now starting to be sexual with each other. I have noticed that he can't orgasm when we have sex. He gets really close but can't seem to do it. He has no problems with orgasming through other means. Is there anything I can do to make him orgasm? What could be the cause of this? Please help. Click here for answers.

I want to find out how to manually stimulate my partner who is on the threshold of having ED (or is already there). I have had some success in getting him to ejaculate (dirty talk, stimulating the frenulum, masturbating, anal stimulation, etc.), but I want some more ideas of what/how to do it with manual manipulation only. I am finding that it is like learning to manipulate a female clitoris!! Is there a book or guide on "How To..."? Everything I'm reading is for an erect penis or suggesting drugs for your partner. Click here for answers.

My husband and I have been married for 13 years. He has never had a problem getting an erection. In the last month he has had a hard time getting an erection. It's so depressing, even with oral sex. I just worry he doesn't love me anymore. He says I'm being crazy. In the last year he has found out he is a diabetic and is on several diabetic meds. Please help. Can you explain this to me or tell us what we can do? Click here for answers.

Most men have trouble not lasting long enough with a woman. I have the other problem, lasting forever (over an hour and then having to give up). I have read many articles out there and the only information I can find is that it may be a psychological problem on my part. I am 18, so it should not be physical. Besides a psychological block, are there any other tips out there that will help me achieve orgasm quicker during sexual intercourse? Click here for answers.

I use to have no problems getting an erection, just thinking of a past experience sometimes would do it. Lately, I started taking those supplements, like Viagra and Pro solutions, that state they will help give penis size, harder erection, and better orgasms, but I feel they are working in reverse. Now it seems I am unable to get a full erection unless I am fully into a sexual action. It stays about 1/2 until I get closer to the orgasm. I also have used Cialis once in a while, which seemed to help at first, but it's not like it was in the past. Any help would be great. Click here for answers.

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year, and for the better part of our marriage, he has had problems getting and keeping an erection. He was a virgin before we married, but has always had a healthy desire for sex, and it's really frustrating to him that he can't perform the way he'd like to, therefore he rarely tries anymore. I am as understanding as I can be, "taking care of myself" when he's not around, and trying not to make him feel any more intimidated or embarrassed about his inability. We are only 23 and 24, and I am very concerned for his health and for the future of our sexual relationship, because it's something that's important to both of us, and even when we don't talk about it, the strain is there. I worry that he is too prideful to seek medical attention for this issue. Is there any way I can introduce this subject without making it seem like I'm telling him he's not good enough? Click here for answers.

All of a sudden I went from lasting thirty minutes without a condom, to literally five minutes with a condom. Nothing has changed in our sex life. I have been really stressed lately and the only thing that I can come up with is that my body physically needs that release. Is that possibly the reason why it changed suddenly? Click here for answers.

I am a 20 year old male, in good shape, and very physically active. Recently, a friend of mine asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. I was a virgin and had only made out with her twice the week before. I had only known her for 3 weeks but figured that she would be a good person to practice with as she is very calm, open minded, and really sexually driven. When we had sex, I would only get as hard as a 5 or 6 (on 10 point scale, ten being the hardest I've been). And then almost immediately, after entering her, I would lose my erection. We tried on and off for about 3 hours to try to have full orgasmic intercourse. We even tried mutual masturbation, oral sex, and hand jobs. Still, every time that I'd go to enter her, I'd lose my erection. I'm not highly attracted to her, but is there something wrong with me? How could I be really hard and long lasting when I'm masturbating, but not when I'm having intercourse with her? Click here for answers.

I have recently gone the route of trying to improve my sex life. I have quit smoking. I have gone to a dietician to recommend a strong diet. I exercise 3 days a week. I can gain an erection while masturbating, however, as soon as I release my penis, I go soft. The same occurs during sex. Is there any exercise, food or thought process I can implement into my life that will allow me to maintain a strong erection? Click here for answers.

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