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I am a 57 year old male and have had a problem with premature ejaculation for years. I am married, but have not had sex with my wife since Feb. 2003. She has had several surgeries and is in chronic pain. I have been going to a sensual massage therapist, but find that I ejaculate whenever I am touched in the pubic area. I have heard that there are exercises that one can do to correct premature ejaculation. Can you advise if this is correct and what exercises I should do? Click here for answers.

I'm a 20 year old guy and in a full sexual relationship with my girlfriend of a similar age. I regularly find it difficult to last very long (not too short) but the sex seems too good to last that long for me. I have been in relationships before where I have lasted up to hours having intercourse but it's a different story now. I love my girlfriend and would like nothing better than to give her the best pleasure she can get. I try stop-and-go lovemaking but sometimes grudge it as when I start to increase speed and length in time she enjoys it more but I end up having to stop, or orgasm. Then either way she is not having the orgasm, which is all I want. Also sometimes when I stop for a while (stop-and-go lovemaking) I sometimes lose my erection. This is becoming a big problem for me as I know I've been able to last longer before and all I want is to give my girlfriend an orgasm, through intercourse as I know if I lasted longer she would. I know it would be easier to pleasure her in other ways, but we both want it to be especially through intercourse as well. Please help me overcome this problem and give me any advice that could benefit the situation as it makes me feel very low and a failure at times. How can I solve this and eventually make her orgasm through intercourse without having to stop-and-go or without reaching orgasm myself too soon? Click here for answers.

I am 20 and I have problems getting an erection or maintaining one. Even when I masturbate I don't always get a full erection. I do wake up with a fully hard erection though. I understand this could possibly be psychological and I've read the responses relating to achieving a comfort zone but that doesn't really help me. Should I go see a sex therapist? Thanks. Click here for answers.

My husband and I just got married and he is the first person for me to have sex with. He has had sex with nearly a dozen women before me, so I did not expect his performance to be a problem. The first time was just fine, but ever since then, after a minute or two into intercourse he becomes limp. He says that aside from one night stands or sexual relationships that lacked commitment, this has been a problem for him. I really doubt that our marital commitment is what's keeping him down (we have a wonderful marriage and he is more than willing to talk this out and keep trying until we figure it out. Besides, we're still honeymooners)--why do you think my husband cannot maintain an erection with me? He maintains an erection if I am giving him oral sex and I never have a problem arousing him--why is that intercourse causes him to lose an erection? Do you have any advice? I hope I have given you enough information to answer my question. Click here for answers.

Ever since the birth of our son our sex life has been non-existent between my husband and I. Now my husband is unable to get erection when it is time to have sex. He does have erections occasionally but when it comes time to have sex it doesn't happen. What is going on? Can you help? Click here for answers.

Premature ejaculation. It has ruined two marriages. Can you help? Click here for answers.

I want to last longer during sexual intercourse. Is it true that if I place a rubber band around my penis it will affect the blood flow and be possible for me to maintain a longer erection? If true, can I pick these up at any "sex toy store"? Click here for answers.

My boyfriend and I have only been having sex for a few months now. We are both 19. Sometimes he has trouble getting an erection and once he has one he loses it very easily. Isn't he too young for this? It's really aggravating and troubling to him. I hope you can help me! Click here for answers.

I am a 39-year old male. I am in good health and have been married for 11 years. When I have sex with my wife, there are times when I am unable to maintain an erection. Am I too young for Viagra? Click here for answers.

I really hope to get an answer from this as I am in need of guidance. I'm a 26 year old male who at times have a very hard time getting and keep an erection. I've had this problem for some time. I am with a very beautiful and attractive girlfriend whom I love and our relationship is great. I have no problem getting aroused by her at times...however, when it comes to the actual time to "penetrate", I lose my erection very fast. I'm not sure, but it may be the fact that when I am erect and having sex that I am not able to last very long at all. I'm talking minutes. It's very depressing for me and I don't know how to solve it. As my fiance loves making love to me (when we can) I want to be able to make love to her as well without this problem. Please Help Me! Click here for answers.

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