ORGASMS

You always hear of women having trouble reaching orgasm and men having trouble keeping themselves from orgasming too quickly. Well in my relationship our roles are reversed. I'm a 21 year old female and my boyfriend is 26. Sex has recently become an issue after the birth of our daughter about a year ago. In my case I orgasm way too quickly... within minutes of penetration, and afterwards I try too keep interested but I loose my libido and have trouble keeping myself lubricated. So my boyfriend usually gives up and never gets the chance to climax. He usually can last up to an hour but I'm done in 2 minutes! I want a normal sex life again! What can we do? HELP! Click here for answers.

I have a friend who had a hysterectomy. She claims that men cannot feel her orgasms because without a uterus, you do not get the muscular vibrations that a woman with a uterus gets. Is that true? Click here for answers.

Can women have multiple orgasms? Click here for answers.

My husband and I have been married for two years. I hadn't had sex or masturbated before marriage so it took us many months of practice and trying different things for me to achieve arousal. Now through oral sex I am easily aroused and often very intensely. However, only once over the last 2 years have I reached climax and felt a release. That was probably almost a year ago. I continue to desire oral sex and I feel very aroused and my body gets very tense, but I just never feel a release. I'm very frustrated and my husband really wants to help, but I often feel unfulfilled and my clitoris is very uncomfortable after we stop. Do we need to spend more time or try something different, or is this more of a mental block on my part. Click here for answers.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months, but he can't get me to orgasm using both finger and oral stimulation. I do masturbate and I can climax every time I do, but he can't get me to. Is it because I masturbate too much that he can't? Any help and suggestions would be fantastic. Click here for answers.

Up until recently I've never had an orgasm (self-induced or otherwise) although I've tried many times. Recently I've gotten past that wall because I worked through my problem myself, but now, right before and when I orgasm, I shut my eyes tightly and hold my breath, and I really can't stop myself. My boyfriend often has to remind me to breathe, and even then, I can only take a quick breath in. Afterwards, my head feels heavy and hurts often, my ears feel as if they need to be popped but they won't, and I feel nauseous. I can't orgasm if I don't do this, what's wrong? Click here for answers.

I'm a 24 year old, engaged female who has never experienced an orgasm. I often worry that this will cause major problems in my married life as it can be very frustrating at times. I have been to a sex therapist and I have not seen any results. What more can I do? Click here for answers.

I am a 29 year old who loves to have sex with my husband and when I have orgasms, I almost pass out or at least feel like I am going to. Is it possible to actually pass out? Click here for answers.

My boyfriend says he has never had an orgasm. Yes he ejaculates but, he has never had the overwhelming feeling of gratification. My question is, how do I make him make the O face, for lack of a better word. I want to make him tingle the way he makes me. Click here for answers.

I have been separated for a year now with a divorce pending. Up until a month or so I did not masturbate. In the last three days I have masturbated for over 30 minutes and have not achieved orgasm. I'm very frustrated and my penis is getting very red from over use. Is it possible that I have desensitized my head? Click here for answers.

I'm a 26 year old woman who has never experienced an orgasm with a man unless he was performing oral sex on me. Actual penetration has never been enjoyable for me and most men I've been with get frustrated with me. Is there something wrong with me? What can I do so I can achieve orgasm during penetration rather than oral sex? Click here for answers.

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