ORGASMS

Do men know when women have orgasms? Click here for answers.

I have looked everywhere to find the answer to this question. I have seen a psychotherapist that didn't help, read many books, but I cannot seem to get up the confidence to have an orgasm with my boyfriend. I enjoy sex. I can masturbate and have an orgasm. But I cannot have one with my boyfriend. This is a problem that I have had with every man I have slept with but it has never bothered me until now. Me and my boyfriend have a wonderful sexual relationship. He tries very hard to help me. He has even read the books with me but still nothing. I have even tried to masturbate with him in the room and let him touch me but nothing. I have even put a pillow over my head and let him touch me and still. The last time we tried that he started to touch me and as soon as he stopped and I didn't feel him anymore I was able to have an orgasm. I don't know what the problem may be. I can walk around him naked and I get aroused with him. But I can never get to that point. I know this is a psychological issue I have about some insecurities. But I am not sure about what they might be. Can anyone help? Click here for answers.

I recently read an article on the topic of orgasms and that they may factor on the genes you have. Have you heard of this? This, if true, gives people no hope when trying so hard to achieve orgasm. I myself find it hard to believe that an orgasm is based on a gene rather than the idea of just learning to relax and enjoy. Click here for answers.

My boyfriend thinks there is something wrong with him because he cannot orgasm more than once a day unless there is about a 10 hour period in-between. He thinks because he is 23, he should be able to go several times a day. I tell him everyone is different and he has nothing to worry about. Am I lying to him, or should we be genuinely concerned? Click here for answers.

I have been sexually active for two years now and I have never had an orgasm during sex. I have only had external orgasms, when I touched on the "outside". I hate faking orgasms, it makes me feel awful. I was wondering if there is ever any medication prescribed for this? Maybe medicine to make my inside sensitive. Click here for answers.

I am a 31 year old woman, who is sexually active. I seem to have a problem with orgasms. I have foreplay all the time before having sex to get me stimulated. My partner knows where all my spots are and it feels wonderful. I get very aroused and feel that I am about to  orgasm, then for some strange reason, I can't fully orgasm and the feeling goes away. I can't understand why this is happening. Can I have something like a mental block that is stopping for me to orgasm? I need help in this, because it is driving me crazy. Click here for answers.

Is it normal for a man to have multiple orgasms while having sex? Click here for answers.

I am a single woman just over 50 and have been seeing a new guy now for a few months. The problem is I cannot climax with him. He really tries, but I tell him I don't know what he can do to please me. I feel so bad. My question is what can I do to help this problem? I heard I can buy a bottle of liquid to help me but I don't know what it is called. Something like "Orgasm in a bottle". Any suggestions? Click here for answers.

Help! I'm a 50 year old male. I was widowed about 1 1/2yrs ago. I am now seeing a terrific girl who is doing wonders for me. Our problem is sexual frequency. We may see each other on weekends. During this time we would probably make love at least 4 times. If, on the fifth attempt, I am unable to sustain an erection or have an orgasm, she thinks something is wrong or I don't find her sexy enough. This woman has given me 4 orgasms in one night but was upset that she couldn't arouse me to a fifth!!!! Four in one night was pretty dang good when I was 24 years old. I can't convince her that 4 orgasms in one night for a 50 year old man is pure proof that I find her to be extremely sexy, desirable and yummy as all. HELP! Click here for answers.

I am a 22 year old woman and I cannot have an orgasm. I have tried toys, different positions, everything, and I can't seem to have an orgasm. What can I do? Click here for answers.

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